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Quality of life
I recently received a response from Senator Burris in regards to my letter (sent a while ago I might add) stating my displeasure with his record on abortion and his favor of the health care plan, which would be allowed to cover elective abortion without funding restrictions. He mentioned his support of a woman’s right to choose (that, obviously, is his choice), but did mention the need to reduce the need for abortions (yeah!). Unfortunately, his plans for that are to “expand access to preventive family planning services [my emphasis], helping to decrease the number of unintended pregnancies.” That means “pregnancy centers” which means access to abortion clinics, which will promote abortions. Duh. He also mentioned a bill he cosigned to “support further measures to increase rates of adoption as an alternative to abortion and reduce unintended pregnancies.” Honestly, I don’t know much about this but it does sound like something I could get behind. It is WAY too easy to get an abortion and WAY too difficult to adopt. But what really irked me about his letter was this statement toward the end: “I believe in the right to good quality of life for every American [emphasis not mine!].”
Who gets to decide what is a quality life? The government? No thanks! Sigh.
Add comment August 6, 2009
Family Fun Friday: Knight’s shield
For my daughter’s medieval princess/knight birthday party, I made shields as takeaways (along with tablecloth tunics and foam swords) for the boys. Here’s how:
1. Print shield shape on 8×10 sheet of computer paper.
2. Trace onto an empty cereal box (use both sides to make 2).
3. Cut out.

4. Turn it over, so the inside of the box is up. Line the edges with tin foil. I pressed a strip to the edge then cut the desired width on the inside of the strip, using the crease as my guide. Then I used a glue stick to adhere it, folding excess to the back.

5. Use construction paper to make a cross or other design for the center.

6. Punch holes or use a marker to make rivet marks on the design and around the edge of the shield.
7. Cut handles from sides of cereal box, where the nutrition information is found. Make a 1.5″ wide or so rectangle (I made 2 from each side), then curve the middle inward to make it more kid-friendly.

8. Glue the handles, one end at a time and bending it gently. Hot glue gun works best for this.

9. Glue craft jewels to center of design.

10. En guard!

1 comment July 16, 2009
Birthday party: Medieval
Colors Food Activities
Avery had her 5th birthday this week so we threw her a big party on Saturday. She wanted to do a princess party. Unfortunately, none of her girlfriends could be there! So, we threw in some knights, my husband and I dressed up as king and queen, and Avery played THE princess (wearing a Cinderella dress in perfect condition from a garage sale and a cone hat we made together). It was really a lot of fun and one of the best parties we’ve thrown, in my humble opinion (it helps we catered the food). Avery helped me quite a bit and was involved in making decisions about the party, too, which added to the fun.
Silver, Cinderella blue, royal blue and purple, with pink thrown in for fun
Decor/supplies
Medieval banners featuring two family crests and her birthday wishes (hand-drawn, computer was out of commission during the planning of this party)
A few flag banners I made from construction paper
Silver plates and cups with craft jewels hot glued on them
Pink napkins (Avery insisted on something pink)
The rest of the decorations were the giveaways and costumes for the guests: shields made from cereal boxes and tin foil (so cute, here’s shield how-to), foam swords from Wal-Mart, and tunics made from a silver tablecloth (instead of a felt coat of arms, I cut a shield shape from silver tissue paper and wrote the kids’ names on it, and, by the way, they held together fine).
I also made a cardboard castle facade (of all the boxes from our kitchen remodel we only had one leftover and it was too tiny for even one kid to play inside. They seemed pretty happy with what we had though.)
Ale (dark red/grape Kool-aid mixed as well as dark colored sodas)
Princess fruit snacks
Snaps square pretzels
Peanuts in the shell (though I had to put these away when I realized not one but two kids were allergic, oops!)
Pineapple/strawberry/grape kabobs
Fried chicken (catered from Wal-Mart, which I highly recommend, just be sure you have all the food, we never did get our rolls)
Potato salad/macaroni salad
Rolls
Princess/carriage/castle shaped melted candy molds on a stick
Silver dollar peppermint patties and Rolos for the “gold chest”
Cake
The cake … sigh. We had a talented neighbor volunteer to make a princess cake, one where the dress is the cake. I even made a miniature version of Avery’s princess cone hat for the doll. But, with the threat of rain, I thought we’d have to post-pone the party so I told her not to make it. Well, the party went on, so we ran to Costco just a few hours before the party to let Avery select one of the pre-made ones. So, it wasn’t the theme and didn’t match, but it was YUMMY! :) (Of course, the one year it’s not blooming HOT so the frosting is melting …)
Since we invited our friends’ families, we mostly made it a social. We had the trampoline we acquired last year as well as a new swingset to entertain the kids (not to mention the swords to chase adults with).
I also bought two bubble wands that were designed like swords, which were a big hit with kids and parents.
1 comment June 11, 2009
Wordless Wednesday: Super family
For more Wordless Wednesday entries: WordlessWednesday.com and 5 Minutes for Mom.
1 comment February 4, 2009
Top it off
My countertops are installed! They are not hideous, embarrassing or ugly in any way. Woo-hoo! They are, however, more gray than brown in overall color. But, I already knew that so I am not surprised. The contrast with the yellow walls and white cabinets, either way, is beautiful. And Heartland did not disappoint. The installers were friendly and helpful, and they cleaned up when they were finished. I am more excited about this than the historic inauguration that is taking place as we speak! I will post a picture as soon as I can but my camera is broken (I can take a picture just not download it). As for the inauguration, I will say that Obama taking office is a remarkable event in the history of our nation: How Conservatives Should Celebrate the Inauguration. But I am sad to see Bush go. As many blunders and mistakes that he made over the years, he has done well for our country, as a man of integrity, character and steadfast leadership (despite the mocking opposition over every little detail). He overcame ferocious opposition against a Democratic-controlled Congress to win key battles for faith, family and common sense. Thank you President and Mrs. Bush! I pray God would bless you for your service to our country and protect you in the years to come!
Add comment January 20, 2009
Every body is special
As the 36th anniversary of the Roe v. Wade Supreme Court decision approaches, the White House proclaimed today, Sunday, January 18, as National Sanctity of Human Life Day. With Barack Obama taking office on Tuesday, it may be the last such proclamation of its kind for the foreseeable future. We talked about abortion from a Biblical perspective today at church (In case you are wondering, unborn babies are created by God and He has a special plan for each and every one. But abortion is not the unforgivable sin! Seek counseling if you or someone you know has been traumatized by abortion). But even more profound, I think, is looking at it from a scientific perspective. As surprising as this may be to some people, there is no debate within the medical community as to when life begins.
A 1981 U.S. Senate report states, “Physicians, biologists, and other scientists agree that conception marks the beginning of the life of a human being – a being that is alive and is a member of the human species. There is overwhelming agreement on this point in countless medical, biological, and scientific writings. No witness raised any evidence to refute the biological fact that from the moment of conception there exists a distinct individual being who is alive and is of the human species.” No witness raised any evidence to refute the biological fact that from the moment of conception there exists a distinct individual being who is alive and is of the human species. (Subcommittee on Separation of Powers, Ibid.)
It’s also often argued that the baby, or fetus, is a part of the woman’s body and completely dependent on it for survival. Therefore, it belongs to the mother. I believe it is no more a part of her body or dependent on it for survival than after birth. Each baby, while conceived and developed in a woman’s womb, is unique, special. He or she has unique DNA that has never been seen before and that will never be seen again. The baby is a person, with brainwaves and preferences that differ from his mother.
My four-year-old said it best when I teased about being “special,” in comparison with my three older sisters. Her response? “Every body is special to God.” That has got to be the smartest thing she has ever said!
I know abortion is controversial. But it’s clear to me. The tolerance for abortion is a sign of complete disregard of human life. It breaks my heart to think of innocent babies paying for the price of the sins of their fathers and mothers, and to even attempt the emotional, spiritual and mental anguish of those mothers … I can’t.
And the news gets worse. The Freedom of Choice Act, supported by Obama, ironically, takes the freedom from faith-based hospitals and facilities to not perform abortions. It will mean unrestricted, federally mandated, no-questions-asked, taxpayer-funded abortions for every woman and child who requests it, without parental involvement. Not to mention, helping mothers make uninformed choices and providing no post-abortion counseling! Take action now to make your voice heard: www.fightfoca.com
“Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him.” Psalm 127:3
1 comment January 18, 2009
My prayer for 2009
Dear Lord,
I pray this year would be one of spiritual growth. I pray that through this year, Your desires would become my desires. That I would stop fighting for control of my life and finally give it up to you. When things don’t go how I desire or expect, I tend to be all doom and gloom. Instead, let me see the good in life and in every situation, look to you for guidance and thankfulness for what we do have. Especially when it comes to my kids. I try to be the “perfect” mom, and I am constantly failing. It’s very stressful trying to be perfect. I know I can take that burden and give it to you to carry. Show me how to do that this year.
And make it obvious, Lord, what barriers I have put up in my life that make it more difficult for me to see You and to rely on you every day, as a mom, a wife, a friend and a Christian. And give me the strength to tear them down.
I pray for a hunger to know You and reflect You by becoming more like Jesus Christ. And in that, I pray for opportunities to share and show my kids (and others) about You. Help me to think creatively to take every day examples of living with a relationship with You and seeing our world with a Biblical perspective so that You are not a stranger to them and Your ways are not strange to them. Give us patience and wisdom as we train them up in the way that they should go. You know we need it!
In Jesus’ Name,
AMEN
2 comments January 2, 2009
Thursday 13: Who’s that again?
1. He comes at Christmas.
2. He can be at your house and your grandma’s house in the same night.
3. He controls the weather and is a friend to animals.
4. He’s often depicted as a white-bearded man with a twinkle in his eye.
5. He’s the “spirit of Christmas.”
6. He loves little children, and asks them to come to him.
7. Children love him and line up just to see him.
8. He asks us to be on our best behavior, obedient.
9. He showers us with gifts.
10. Adults may be criticized for believing in him.
11. Many consider him to be make-believe.
12. Yet, belief in him brings miracles to earth.
13. He resides in a place that could be described as the opposite of a fiery hell.
In case you wondered, I was referring to Jesus Christ, not Santa Claus. Don’t replace God with Santa this Christmas! We have fun at our house at Christmas, but my kids barely know who Santa Claus is. When we see a depiction of Father Christmas, my two-year-old son says “God!”
Just a few weeks ago we got out the holiday decorations, and my daughter Avery asked about the stockings. I told her about Santa Claus and how some people celebrate Christmas by putting puts toys in there. She got all excited, saying “Can I do that?!?!” I wasn’t sure what to say until she started to talk about putting Charlie’s cars inside. For the next hour or so, she and her little brother filled the stockings with cars and dumped them out, having a great time. So, I don’t think you have to ban Santa, but keep things in perspective so that you don’t lose your children’s faith and trust. There is no reason kids won’t have fun at Christmas without the extra emphasis on jolly old St. Nick. One writer for Regular Folks United said it well: Don’t lie to your kids this Christmas
Related post: Merry Clausmas … er, I mean Christmas
12 comments December 18, 2008
Birthday party: Cars
Since Charlie’s birthday, I have been meaning to post his party from last year, too. So, I am finally gettin’ to it. I let Avery pick the theme and she selected Cars. No surprise since that was the big hit (and still is). It was her second choice for her party that year. Ka-Chow!
Colors
Red, bright Dinoco blue
Decor/supplies
Red plates and napkins
Cars cake plates and cups for the kids
Black table cover (with yellow construction paper lane dividers taped to it)
Red balloons
Route 66 signs and green Radiator Springs road sign
Stoplight: I covered a shoe box with a brown paper bag and glued red, green and yellow circles on it (outlined in black marker) and hung it over the center of the patio to represent the lone stop light in the center of Radiator Springs.
Food
Hamburgers/hot dogs
Fruit mix
Chips
Blue raspberry Kool-aid mixed with generic Sprite for “Dinoco punch” (I filled a 5 gallon Gatorade jug and taped to it the Dinoco punch sign I made on the computer)
Cars fruit snacks
Chocolate honeycombs
Stacked Oreos (for Luigi’s Casa Del Tires)
Veggie tray
Cake
I had fun with his cakes. And they turned out oh-so-cute! I baked several bread loaf cakes (not filling them too full so they wouldn’t be tall) and trimmed them with an electric knife to mimic the cars characters. I also made a mini loaf McQueen for my son’s personal cake. For the two little guys, I cut one cake in half (part if it actually fell apart which is why I even decided to do that). I used chocolate and white frosting (do all white windows first), as well as dyed vanilla frosting, depending on the colors needed for each car. If I were to do it again, I would make more white windows, the front windshield got a little tight when I started taking it over with the body color. For each of the eyes, I used a black gel writer with a bit of white frosting applied with a toothpick on top of the eye color.
McQueen was the toughest because he required a lot of red. He ended up a very salmon-y dark pink, but it was the best I could do. His headlights were 1/4 piece of yellow Starburst, and of course, Oreos for his sporty wheels. Sally’s headlights were white Smarties. For Doc, I used only half of an Oreo (taking one cookie side off) and attempted to use pretzels for his grille. Something else might work better. He had yellow Smarties for headlights. Luigi had Junior Mints I think for wheels since he was smaller. I printed an Italian flag on the computer and taped it to a toothpick just for fun. He also had yellow Smarties for headlights. Mater had one Smarties headlight, of course, and chocolate Honeycombs for wheels.
Activities
Cars books and toys
Ramone’s House of Body Art Cars tattoos for kids of all ages!
Pin the eyes on McQueen: I hand drew a picture of McQueen on a roll of extra-large paper, which was a banner at Avery’s birthday the year before, and made blue eyes with my scrapbooking supplies. Using reusable glue (I used ZIG 2-Way Glue), we were able to have the kids take turns pinning the eyes on, without messing with tape or pins.

Goody bags
I bought goody bags at the party store, and filled them with Cars stickers, wheel Yo-yos, bubbles and random candy, and who knows what else. This is a detail I don’t remember!
5 comments October 13, 2008
Tackle it Tuesday: Promote your party
Ok, I have two tackles today, both related to the fast-approaching November election. Motivated by my sister who also picked up political signs this week (and the presidential debate tonight), I finally made the effort to find out where I could pick up McCain-Palin yard signs. I had searched online but they were rather expensive, and you just know the money is going to some opportunistic entrepreneur and not the campaign I want to support. You can find a headquarters near you, too, by searching Google for “Republican 
or Democratic party YOUR county.” There’s a Republican headquarters in McHenry County on Hwy 14 in Crystal Lake. You can’t miss it (Actually, you can. I nearly missed it twice before I noticed the building covered in banners and signs.)! You can pick up yard signs and literature for presidential candidates as well as for your local elections. Free-will donations are optional. I took my kids with me after lunch, and they had a blast playing with the red-white-blue tassels decorating the tables. Plus they handed out candy. Easy!
1 comment October 7, 2008
Tackle it Tuesday: Get informed!
Fact Check
http://factcheck.org/
A nonpartisan, nonprofit “consumer advocate” for voters that aims to reduce the level of deception and confusion in U.S. politics. The group monitors the factual accuracy of what is said by major U.S. political players in the form of TV ads, debates, speeches, interviews and news releases.
Town Hall
http://townhall.com/
Conservative columnists, founded by talk show host Hugh Hewitt.
Red State
http://www.redstate.com/
RedState is the leading blog for right of center online activists. Established in May of 2004 by Ben Domenech, Mike Krempasky, and Josh Trevino to play an integral role in the right’s fight online.
Jeff Emanuel
http://www.jeffemanuel.net/
The blog of Jeff Emanuel, a leading conservative writer and Pulitzer-Prize nominated combat journalist. He’s a regular contributor to the Weekly Standard, The American Spectator, and Human Events newspaper, as the Washington Times, the American Thinker, the Atlanta Journal-Constitution, the Wall Street Journal’s Opinion Journal, the Jerusalem Post, and National Review Online.
Daily Kos
http://www.dailykos.com/
A liberal online community, focusing on national political issues from the liberal point-of-view.
1 comment October 7, 2008
Abortion extremist
For anyone who questions whether Obama is an abortion extremist, please read “Infants who survive abortions” by Mona Charen, which appeared in The Washington Times on Monday: http://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2008/sep/22/infants-who-survive-abortions/ and watch the video below featuring Jill Stanek.
<P>[Edited to add 10/15/08: More from Robert George: <a href="http://townhall.com/columnists/RobertGeorge/2008/10/15/obamas_abortion_extremism">Obama's Abortion Extremism</a>].
Add comment September 30, 2008
Birthday party: Hot Wheels!
Oh, we also had a birthday party for Charlie’s birthday this weekend! He turned two last Sunday and we finally had everybody (and I do mean everybody) over for a Hot Wheels themed BBQ. We tried to keep it simple, but I still had fun with some of the decorations. Colors Decor/supplies Food Cake I made two cakes with 9×11 cake pans. Putting the flatter one on the bottom, I frosted them together. Then I carved just enough to make a spoiler in the back and a lower hood in the front. Round off the front a bit, too. I frosted the windows white and the rest of the car yellow (I did a red car last year for Lightning McQueen and it was rather pink and I used A LOT of dye, so I decided to try something else, but a darker color would be better. On second thought, I should have just used chocolate frosting and made it brown). I used a black gel writer to put Charlie’s name on the hood and the number 2 on the top and sides, like a race car. Added Oreos for wheels, although they were a bit small for the size of the cake. Activities Goody bags
Black, white and red
Hot Wheels banner (I made this, imitating the Hot Wheels logo and my husband was able to print it at work)
Hot Wheels cake plates and napkins from the party store
Red dinner plates, napkins and bowls
Black table cover (with yellow construction paper for lane lines)
Black and white streamers with a few red curly ribbon bunches
Pit stop (bathroom), fuel (food and drink) and weight limit (on trampoline) street signs, as well as caution: construction and “no thru entry” for the kitchen remodel (I just printed on 8.5×11 paper)
Hot wheels and other car toys and car mat
Oh, and one orange cone on the cake table, which I bought at the dollar store

Lemonade mixed with generic Sprite
Cheese Ritz sandwich crackers
Generic oreo cookies
Wheels macaroni
Hamburgers (with checkered flag toothpicks I made with label stickers)
Hot dogs (I saw cute race cars online made with the buns but I didn’t do this)
Hot Wheels fruit snacks
Veggie tray and chips
Hot tamales

I made the cake totally last minute so I was disappointed in it but it was still cute. It was hot so the frosting was melting. I recommend making the cake the day before and frosting it in the evening, so you can put it in the fridge, if you make something like this when it is warm.

Since we invited our friends, we mostly made it a BBQ social. We also had the trampoline we acquired this summer. I did make red, yellow and green flags for a greenlight/redlight kind of game but we never got around to that. I had the cars out for little ones to play with and a basket with balls for kids and adults.
I found race car goody bags at the dollar store, as well as race cars filled with pez-type candies. I also included tootsie rolls, chocolate candy and Hot Wheels stickers.
Add comment September 2, 2008
“Tiniest, most fragile of patients”
ABC’s World News aired a segment during the July 29 broadcast that showcased a successful surgery done on twin boys two months before they were born to correct a complication known as “Twin-to-Twin Transfusion Syndrome.” Read more from the Culture & Media Institute: ABC Covers Medical Marvels Extended to the Unborn.
Add comment August 5, 2008
Old school vs. new
Living in the NW suburbs of Chicagoland, we have the privilege of access to many recently built, safe, fun playground areas. But, it was a real treat when driving across Iowa last week (we took Hwy 20 just about the entire way) to stop at a few parks with old school play grounds. I would highly recommend this when traveling, by the way. We stopped just twice for about 45 minutes each. One time at lunch so we could eat a picnic. It made the 9 hour drive bearable for the kids (and, therefore, me)!
Anyway, along the way, my kids got to see what a merry-go-round and teeter-totter were, among some other classic metal toys. They had a blast! I will say, it was more work though. I had to be much more attentive when they played on them, and often they needed assistance to get on or stay on or get down! So, I can definitely see the advantage of today’s more “parent-friendly” play areas, where I can sit on a bench and just watch. Don’t get me wrong, I like to interact with them at the park, too, it’s just nice not to have to be stressed out about it!
1 comment June 30, 2008
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